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​Expanding Your Child’s Horizons: Unconventional After-School Pursuits

7/31/2023

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Foreword 

As a child, I was raised in an environment that was a stimulation wasteland, where many days went by without mental growth. It slowed my emotional intelligence and limited my ability to compete and grow. My book on this topic will be published later this year. It's entitled "A Vagabond Life - A Memoir of Father Hunger".

This article by Lacie Martin of <raisethemwell.org> has activity suggestions that will prepare your child for a future that will challenge them, making them competitive with peers, or even ahead of them. I heartily endorse these suggestions!

Michael Byron Smith



​​Expanding Your Child’s Horizons: Unconventional After-School Pursuits
 
After-school activities can make a significant difference in a child's life by providing opportunities that go beyond academics and sports. Participating in extracurricular activities can help a child shape their identity and broaden their interests. Today, Michael Byron Smith explores some alternative after-school activities meant to foster your child’s creativity, independence, and social skills.
 
Enroll Them in Martial Arts 
Martial arts is a popular activity that doesn’t require prior experience. Apart from its health benefits, martial arts provide a disciplined approach to physical fitness and help children develop emotional intelligence and learn self-defense. The advanced skills required for martial arts teach children to set realistic goals and work towards achieving them. Moreover, this activity teaches children the importance of respect, courtesy, and empathy, which improves their relationships with others.
 
Start a Book Club After School 
Encouraging your child to read is one of the most effective ways to spark their imagination and shape their personality. By joining an after-school book club, your child can enhance their reading skills and comprehension and discover new authors, genres, and cultures. In addition, book clubs provide a platform for kids to improve their social skills by discussing and debating different perspectives with their peers. Give your child the gift of a book club membership and unlock their full potential.
 
Check Out Coding 
Encouraging children to learn how to code not only provides a foundation for future careers in technology, but also supports the development of critical thinking, problem-solving, and creativity. Learning to code also teaches children how to approach complex tasks with patience and persistence, helping them to build resilience and confidence. Plus, coding skills can be applied to a variety of fields, from science and engineering, to gaming and media, making it a versatile and valuable tool for future success. You can enroll your child into a coding class or club, or use free online resources to get started!
 
After-School Theater Is Great 
The theater is an exceptional after-school activity for children who love performing arts or longing to enhance their public speaking skills. It is a platform that fosters creativity, collaboration, and self-expression. By providing a secure environment, theater instills a sense of comfort with vulnerability, enabling kids to develop emotional intelligence and social awareness. Besides, theater instills the values of teamwork and respect for others, as children work together to achieve a common goal.
 
Introduction to Entrepreneurship 
Encouraging children to unleash their entrepreneurial potential can be an exhilarating and fulfilling after-school pursuit. For instance, you should show them how to create a text logo online, which is a great way to encourage their creativity while also encouraging the development of other business skills like critical thinking, problem-solving, and leadership. At first, they can start small with products or services that cater to their peers and capture their interests. As their venture flourishes, they will gradually master various aspects of entrepreneurship, such as financial management, marketing strategies, and customer service.
 
Encourage Volunteering 
Encouraging your child to spearhead a volunteer project can be a transformative and gratifying after-school activity. By fostering a sense of social responsibility and empathy, they can hone essential life skills and create lasting community impact. From organizing a food or clothing drive to leveraging social media to rally volunteers and donations, their leadership skills will shine through every aspect of their initiative. Through volunteerism, they can not only develop emotional intelligence and social skills but also deepen their connection to society.
 
Learn a Musical Instrument 
Learning a musical instrument is not just a beneficial after-school activity; it is a life-altering experience that ingrains invaluable qualities like patience, discipline, and perseverance. It immeasurably enhances cognitive capacity, fine motor skills, and memory, besides providing endless personal satisfaction. From the guitar to the piano to drums and more, children can choose any instrument that resonates with them. With regular practice, they can sharpen their skills and unlock a lifelong passion for music that will stay with them forever.
 
Help Your Child Find Their Passions 
Extracurricular activities can have a profound impact on your child's life trajectory. By motivating them to engage in after-school activities, you expand their horizons, improve their social skills, and empower them to pursue their passions and interests. Offering your child these opportunities to explore, grow, and learn vital life skills can unlock a world of possibilities and create a strong foundation for their future success.
 
Being a parent is hard, but Michael Byron Smith wants to help men learn how to be great dads to their kids. Visit me online to learn more parenting tips.
 

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Thoughts of an Old Guy

7/20/2023

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PictureThe face of wisdom???

At 73 years old, you like to think you have gained some wisdom. Well, I don't always feel wise, but I do try to help others, mostly young fathers. It's top of my mind to share what I have learned because being mentored came late to me. This experience is the topic of a memoir that is currently at my publisher.

The title is "A Vagabond Life - A Memoir of Father Hunger". I hope for it to be available before the end of the year.


Sometimes it's good to be reminded of things we may already know, or really never thought through. Here are some thoughts:
  • The bravest person is not the most fearless. It’s the person that may be terrified but does what they have to do. 
  • A beautiful person is not the most pleasing to the eye. It’s the person that is pleasing to all the senses. 
  • A successful person is not measured by accomplishments alone, but by the failures that were overcome while serving others with kindness and grace. 
  • A good parent is not one that gives without expectations and overly protects. It is the parent that guides, tests, and corrects while placing learning stresses on their children while preparing them for the world. 
  • Honesty alone does not ensure respect. An honest person who can be believed without deception yet with thoughtful forbearance will be the most respected. 
  • Those things that can be perfected will take away from other things that could be done better. Choose wisely. 
  • Have integrity and you will have friends, influence, purpose, and meaning.
 
Michael Byron Smith 
Author of “The Power of Dadhood” 



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