Kids want their dads to be around. Maybe not all the time, just when they want you or need you. But isn’t that what dads are for?
They also want you to want to be around them. That doesn’t mean to say that they wouldn’t prefer you to go away sometimes. It just has to be their idea, not yours.
They also want you to want to be around them. That doesn’t mean to say that they wouldn’t prefer you to go away sometimes. It just has to be their idea, not yours.
Sometimes you need to concentrate on them. Special days, set aside for family time, is essential because when you are busy, you may not remember the little things that really aren’t that little.
Dance with your kids, sing to them, play with them, and hold them....
....even when they get older!
But start when they are young because it will be difficult to start later!
But start when they are young because it will be difficult to start later!
Capture your children in photos as they grow. They change every day and you can't go back!
Set on a swing and talk to them. Or just swing. One on one time is very valuable.
Traditions are always a good idea. Take them to the park, or the ballpark. All my kids remember going to see the Cardinals play, getting nachos, and singing “Take Me Out to the Ballgame”. Zoos are also fun and educational. We go several times a year and always have a wonderful time.
When I became a grandfather, I bought 2 ½ acres in the country just for the purpose of creating memories for my children and grandchildren. We have a playhouse and playground where they can be kids, host friends, explore, and just enjoy nature.
Even Grandfathers can join in the fun!!
The key is really knowing your children enough to know when to give attention, when to stay in the background. Know how to show your love while letting them know you are their parent, not their friend. Most importantly, let them know they are wanted and very special to you!
Enjoy your kids and they will enjoy you!
The key is really knowing your children enough to know when to give attention, when to stay in the background. Know how to show your love while letting them know you are their parent, not their friend. Most importantly, let them know they are wanted and very special to you!
Enjoy your kids and they will enjoy you!
